Why does erection disappear during sex?

A single case of erection loss during intercourse is not a pathology, and is quite common among men. The main thing is not to attach importance to temporary failures and look at it as an accidental event. Another thing is when one failure has given rise to a psychological disorder in which sexual embarrassment happens every time you have sexual intercourse. This condition was called "Fear of anxious expectation of sexual failure( STOSN)."

Such sexual embarrassment strongly affects the man's confidence in his abilities and as a result can lead to fear of sexual intimacy and complete rejection of sexual relations. To prevent this, it is necessary to determine the exact causes of erectile dysfunction and eliminate them until they become permanent.

Causes of erection disappearance during sex

1. Psychological. In the vast majority of cases of erection disappearing during or before sexual intercourse, psychological causes take place. As a rule, such reasons have an individual character, the most frequent of which are:

• Unsuccessful sexual experience. Unsuccessful sexual experience lays a mark on the later sexual life of a man and can be the cause of the development of sexual phobias.
• Insecurity, fear of not satisfying the partner, does not justify her expectations. Quite frequent phenomena for men, strong experiences because of which can cause a decrease in potency or lack of erection at the right time.
• Strong excitement, most often caused by insecurity.
• Dissatisfaction with the partner. If a girl expresses her dissatisfaction about the sexual capabilities of a man and all that is associated with it( penis size, etc.), this may be the cause of erection disappearance.
• Depression, stress and problems.

2. Physiological. Disappearance of erection associated with any diseases of the genital area. Are a small percentage for this situation and are typical for middle-aged and older men.

3. Household. Not related to the psychological state and diseases of the causes, which can include physical or mental fatigue, indifference and apathy to a partner, and more.

How to distinguish psychological problems from physiological problems?

If problems with erection arise only during sexual contact with a partner, and alone with you you can easily cause a strong and prolonged erection, then this is definitely a psychological disorder.

How to solve psychological problems with potency?

Elimination of STSN .Use the methods of eliminating the fear of sexual failure, which are used in their practice by sexologists.

Determine the source of the problem. Ask yourself, are your fears justified? Try to analyze and understand why this is happening. Can you solve the problem yourself? The concept of the cause of the disease and the realization of its inadequacy can sometimes prevail over fears.

Get the support of a partner .Only one support of a partner can neutralize all failures. Your relationship with the partner should be based on full trust and understanding, if in case of failure you could without fear of explaining the current situation.

Alcohol in moderation. .In this case, alcohol can help: it relaxes and allows you to behave more relaxed and confident. But this does not mean that every sexual act should begin with the adoption of alcohol: one successful sexual intercourse in most cases is enough to get rid of complexes of sexual failure.

Be confident in yourself .Whatever you do, these actions should strengthen self-confidence. Think about what makes you feel more confident in sexual relations and embody it. For example, you can perform exercises to increase the potency or there are products that increase potency, follow the general recommendations for health promotion. Remember that by insecurity you feed your fears, make them more real.

If self-help therapy has not been successful, ask a good sexologist who, in a couple of sessions, will save you from this problem.

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