What are men afraid of in bed?

What are men afraid of in bed. People have a lot of problems, they are embarrassed to talk about. Very often people because of their prejudices remain with their suffering one on one. And sometimes even without realizing that the exit is very close. And sometimes the solution to the problem is very simple.

There are fewer men in Russia than women, and every man is practically at a picket. So what do men fear in bed? We will try to answer this question today.

A man has a phallic cult, that is, he considers himself to be a man, in case he has a phallus( member).A man episodically, when he knows that he is not being followed, touches, thereby checking whether everything is in place. This is an instinctive fear, under which he must constantly check. When this is done it is not very convenient, it touches the nose, so this is a substitution therapy, since in the nose there are also bloody bodies, as in the penis.

The first thing men are afraid of is the size of the penis.

This is due to the fact that when a man is in a sauna, bath or shower and at the same time sees the sexual members of other men, he begins to compare. And according to the law of physics of optical deception, it seems to him that the other penis has more than his. And the fact is that he sees them from the side, and he sees his member from above, this is the meaning of optical deception. The question arises, does the size of the penis matter?

The average size of the erect penis reaches 12-18 cm. If the penis size is less than 5 cm, it is assessed as a violation of the endocrine system and treated by endocrinologists, and not through surgery. The endocrinologist prescribes these or other endocrine drugs.

Regardless of the size of the penis during a proper intimacy, a woman develops an orogenic cuff that wraps around her penis at some point. In this case, the size of the penis, does not play any role.

The second of which men are afraid, this is an erection disorder. And especially when a man in 40 years, you need to take it more seriously. In the penis are the thinnest vessels, with an erection the vessel expands. Since erection is the mechanism of blood filling, vasodilation and filling of blood vessels. If men, over forty years of age, do not get an erection, this can be the cause of atherosclerosis in the vessels of the penis, that is, plaques and a vessel can not be filled. There is a statistic that if there are erectile dysfunctions, then in five years men may have a myocardial infarction. In this case, it is necessary to be examined and treated.

Third, which is very common for men, this is an early ejaculation. Physiologically this phenomenon( from the beginning of irritation of the erogenous zone to ejaculation), men experience from one to three minutes. This is called a physiological erection. But there are other signs, when it is premature ejaculation, this phenomenon occurs up to one minute. In this case it is a painful sign. When a man is very worried, it can happen before sexual intercourse occurs. This condition needs therapy. The simplest therapy is regular sex with his wife. Since if a man seeks sexual experiences and meets a new woman, he does not understand that he is even more traumatizing himself.

In order to get rid of fears, sometimes you just need to turn to a therapist. Perhaps your problems are connected with fears.